Queerics
My girlfriend Chesh runs a LGBT-themed lyrics database and will answer all your questions about alternative gay music. She's always open to submissions and you can explore new stuff you've never heard before, as long as you don't mind if it's somewhat bent.

Sconeborough
My friend Silver draws a weekly webcomic, Sconeborough. It's the tale of ... well, whatever she wants it to be the tale of that week. Ghosts, cats, lesbians and dinosaurs all make various appearances!